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Shopping for your first vibrator shouldn’t feel awkward or overwhelming.
We’ve rounded up beginner-friendly toys that are simple, approachable, and genuinely fun to use — perfect if you’re brand new or just want an easy place to start.
Take our 60-second quiz for personalised beginner recommendations.
So, you’re ready to buy your first vibrator?
Breathe. Stretch. Shake it out. You’ve already done the hardest part: deciding to try something new.
But the options? The buzzwords? The shapes? It can all feel like trying to order from a menu in another language.
Good news: we’ve made it simple. With our no-pressure, no-jargon, judgment-free guide to choosing your first vibrator—based on how you want to feel.
If you’ve ever typed “Is using a vibrator bad?” into Google, you’re not alone.
Closely followed by questions like:
Short answer?
No — using a vibrator is not bad.
Long answer?
Let’s unpack where these fears come from, what’s actually true, and why vibrator use is far more normal (and beneficial) than we’ve been led to believe.
Justine here, founder of That's The Spot.
Do you remember your first experience with a vibrator?
Perhaps it's yet to happen (I can help with that 😉)
I was gifted my first vibrator for my 18th birthday.
Let me take you back to that time ...
Once my 18th birthday party had died down, I was heckled to open a present I was previously told to "hide" from my parents. But I was a few drinks in (six Vodka Cruisers was pretty wild back in 2005) and I decided to open it in front of friends and family...
Absolutely. Almost everyone feels a bit unsure at first. That’s exactly why this collection exists — to make your first experience feel easy, comfortable, and exciting (not intimidating).
Not at all. Every product in this collection has adjustable intensity, so you can start slow and build up only if and when you want to. You’re always in control.
Nope! Many first-time shoppers prefer external vibrators, and that’s totally valid. There’s no “right” way to use a vibrator — only what feels good for you.
Yes. All products in this collection are made from body-safe materials and selected with comfort and safety in mind.
There’s no such thing as a wrong choice — just learning what you like. If you’re unsure, start with something simple and versatile. Many of our customers tell us their first toy helped them discover what they wanted next. Also, don't forget, we offer a 30-day Pleasure Promise!
Yes — and we highly recommend it. A good water-based lubricant makes everything more comfortable and enjoyable, especially for beginners.
Always. Orders are shipped in plain, unbranded packaging because your privacy matters.
Of course. If you need guidance, reach out to our team. We’re here to help you feel confident, comfortable, and supported — no awkwardness, ever. You can get in touch here.
