Post-Purchase Pleasure Tips: Getting the Most Out of Your New Toy

You’ve got it. Now let’s make sure you love it.

Whether you've made a sex toy purchase for the first time, or you’re a seasoned explorer of pleasure products, a little guidance can make your first (and every) experience even better.

Here’s a friendly post-purchase guide to help you enjoy your toy safely, confidently, and pleasurably.

1. Take Your Time With Unboxing

The unboxing moment is part of the excitement! We offer a discreet, yet premium unboxing experience. Take a few minutes to:

• Admire the packaging, it's cute and fun, isn't it?

• Read the included instructions carefully. Did you notice how we printed these onto a bookmark. Consider your bedside table draws sorted!

• Prepare to charge your toy before its first use.

Think of it as a ritual — the anticipation is part of the pleasure.

2. Clean Before You Play

Even brand-new toys should be cleaned before first use:

• Use warm water and mild soap, or a body-safe toy cleaner

• Avoid harsh chemicals or alcohol-based cleaners

• Dry with a lint-free cloth

Clean toys = confident, worry-free play.

3. Charge and Test Your Toy

All That's The Spot Pleasure Pals are re-chargeable and every toy comes with its own charging cable. 

• Fully charge your toy to ensure maximum performance.

• Once charged, try out all the settings and vibration patterns in a private, relaxed space. We recommend doing this before settling in for your first play. It creates a pressure-free environment to explore.

• When you feel comfortable, experiment with speed, intensity, and placement to discover what feels best.

Knowing your toy inside and out makes the experience smoother and more pleasurable. 

Pro tip: Not every toy hits the spot on your first use. It's important to experiment, trial and test different positions, speeds and patterns to discover how your toy will work best for you.

Practice makes perfect! 

4. Lube Is Your Friend

A good lube enhances sensation and makes everything feel smoother:

• For silicone toys, choose a water-based lubricant
  

• Apply liberally — don’t be shy!

Lube isn’t just a “nice-to-have,” and it's not "for a certain age" - it’s a game-changer for comfort and pleasure.

5. Create the Right Environment

Pleasure is about more than just the toy. Set the mood:

• Dim the lights or light a candle.

• Play music that helps you relax.

• Ensure privacy and uninterrupted time.

• Don't place too much pressure on yourself. Not every play has to result in orgasm.

Even small changes in environment can significantly enhance the experience.

6. Explore and Experiment

The best part of a new toy is figuring out what works for you:

• Try different positions or angles — use pillows, sofas or a bed to see what feels right for you.

• Be aware of your temperature — do things feel better warm or cold?

• Combine your new toy with other toys or accessories.

• Take your time — there’s no need to rush.

Pleasure is personal. There’s no right or wrong way to enjoy your toy, there's just your way.

7. Cleaning After Play

After use, clean your toy again:

• Warm water + mild soap or a toy cleaner works best

• Dry thoroughly with a lint-free cloth and store in breathable pouch
  

Clean toys last longer and feel just as amazing every time.

8. Share Your Experience (If You Want!)

Customer reviews help others feel confident in their purchases. Share your thoughts on:

• What you loved about the toy.

• How it helped with your self-care or intimacy.

• Your favourite settings or combinations.

Your feedback could inspire someone else to explore their own pleasure journey. You can leave a review here.

Final Thought

Pleasure is personal, powerful, and meant to be explored without guilt. Your new That’s The Spot toy is more than just a product — it’s a tool for confidence, self-care, and joyful exploration.

Enjoy every moment, and remember: the best part of pleasure is discovering what makes you feel amazing.